Charming lady

When can I acquire the charm I see in this lady I met for interview just
now?

She wears a black wraparound dress, prada bag with prada shoes, fresh
pink nails, clean matte skin, contact lense, straight simple shoulder
length hair that flows...

Can I up myself to that level one day?

Why am I always the girl look? When will I become the lady?

Universe pls pls..